Tuesday 16 December 2014

The Human Economics of Desires, Wants and Determinations!

It’s that time of the Year. Remember that Piece of Paper/adorned Dairy where you scribbled your bucketlist for 2014. Oh! Because we are the generation who is cursed with the advent of technology, may be the bucketlist is well guarded in the nook of that no public access zone on your machines.

Where they will be certain ‘Oh, Yes’ moments and ‘Ticks’ on the list, there will obviously be occurrences of long faces as well.

So, what happens when wishlist doesn't culminate into ACHIEVED! Do we give up on the desires or may be train our brain into thinking that this might not be the best thing for us or divert all our energy to the second best thing.

See, the entire dogma of begging infront of a supernatural power for benefits without bringing about any change/human revolution in you, doesn't sync in with me. The trick is not to undermine the power of the Mystic Law and have a doubt-free faith in its existence and then bringing about Human Revolution in yourself, in such way that the environment starts responding to your desires and carves the path for you to fulfill them.
Okay, let’s simplify the mechanics.

If I want my kosen-rufu Job, what do I do about it? While applying, networking for it, I also try and imbibe all the qualities that my prospective employer may look for and thus make the environment a magnetic field. Basically, it is evolving yourself in such a fashion that automatically whatever you desire gets attracted to you. And this is purely possible because of HUMAN REVOLUTION. Newton’s Third Law of Motion.

The next battle is “Jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai”. Somehow, the interpretations of Gita have ruined it for us. It just stinks of lethargy and non-progressive contentment. So the Economics says, we will all achieve our determinations and report victories but how soon we achieve them depends on whether we are crawling, walking or running towards them. And yet again depends on with how much zeal and passion you want to report Victories and but ofcourse HUMAN REVOLUTION. So until and unless you yourself don’t desire/want a particular thing, conspicuous or inconspicuous, you have all the chance in the world to achieve it.


So, may be your boss thinks you are douchebag or the neighbourhood Uncle, doesn't think high of your culinary skills, may be the love you wanted never came back, or that stock market ate up all your savings, move the bloody environment to declare SPARTA! 


Thursday 11 December 2014

Different definitions of Love! Part 2- The Quarter Life Crisis!

A week to the back to back wedding  season and I have serious symptoms of maturity. So, because of lack of work in office these days, the Clients seem to be on the upcoming Holiday-orgasm, I have been thinking about how our perspective about love/commitment changes with age.

Just two days back, at one of our drunk nights, a friend tells me, “I am in the age –bracket where investing time, energy and emotions (Yes, emotions indulge in the Quarter life) in a frivolous relationship seems a waste. Whatever, I get into now, will/should be on the path to culminate into the 7 vows”. I concur.

I guess, being with someone now, is beyond the feeling of butterfly in the stomach or just the need of feeling that body next to yours or a trophy to display to the world. The shit gets real now. The crude story is 6 months and love is out of the window in any relationship, so can you bank your lifetime on just Love. NO.  

Without sounding morbid, commitment has a bucketlist! Mine might be too prudish for yours but it is certainly there. There is no cliché of “He should complete me” but someone who, may be with different lifestyle or slightly parallel yet complimenting life-ideology, helps me flourish my own life-ideologies. If I don’t come out as better person with another human attachment in my life, what’s the point of that attachment!

Gone are the days of 36 ke 36 gun match hue hain! The two individuals can have separate lifestyles, no way am I advocating whoring around but my inquisitive plunges in baking obviously will not sync in with his man-love for football. But that’s alright. OD-ing on anything, anyway leads to catastrophe.

So long story cut short.

(a) Only I am the centre of my happiness and I can’t depend on anyone to sprinkle fairy dust in my    life.

(b) As disappointing as it sounds, too old for dating games.

(c) Relationships are not like monkey on back. Individual lifestyles while inspiring the other person  to grow beautifully is a keeper.

(d) Even with all the hullahoop the desire to come back to each other is it.


(e) Get me my Vodka with water and limejuice! 



Tuesday 9 December 2014

All Real Stories Are Eventually Monologues!

She picked up the raincoat, that celebrated umbrella from last season was still brand new. On the road there were puddles everywhere, each echoing their own story, much like humans. She reached all drenched. The umbrella was never opened.


What is rain to hide what the human heart adorns!



All real stories are eventually monologues!